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July 11, 2019

#111 | Preparing for an Eloquent Barbarian Through Feminine Surrender with Diana M. Joice

About This Episode

Diana M. Joice is a writer, a tanguera, a white tigress, and a coach. She’s obsessed with intimacy, attraction, poetry, and Argentine Tango. She also calls herself a master of orgasm and while she could climax anytime anywhere since she was a young adult, it wasn’t enough. Diana confesses to having trouble being met equally in a relationship according to her own experiences of intensity and the powerful energy of intimacy. She realized that she needed a man’s worship, playfulness, and challenge as well as a sea of love and overwhelming penetration that she had to let all the way in.

Diana claims that connection, constant sexual energy, and surrendering to the masculine is what helped her go even deeper into her own sensuality, love, and femininity and prepare herself for the eloquent barbarian that she deeply craved. Today her mission is to raise the level of erotic vibes and intimacy in interactions between men and women through intimacy and sexuality coaching, retreats and workshops.

“Femininity is like water and air. It engulfs and encircles the hardness of a rock. It glides along the tip of a sword or it stays within an ocean bed… It dances with the current and allows to be inhaled, ingested, redirected. Femininity allows itself to be cut and yet the cut doesn’t harm it.”

Join us for a conversation of why deep inner work, sexual intimacy, men’s energetic penetration, and feminine surrender is what needs to happen inside first before the true masculine equal can appear in our lives. Here is what we talk about.

  • Why surrender is the ultimate feminine weapon
  • The importance of claiming your “dance floor” with the masculine
  • The masculine/feminine polarity and how to embrace your feminine pole
  • Why women need to dissolve the need to be “the train”
  • Working with and not against your feminine flow
  • Difference between feminine and masculine “work”
  • Practical steps to embody your feminine flow
  • and much more…


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